Professional event planners can take some of that weight off your shoulders.
Life is too short for all that.
Make that meaningless life one that everyone will talk about.
I used to screen shot conversations and be all about the drama and making fun of that person but I saw others do it too and it opened my eyes as to how badly it looks.
Please also know to try to work out at least 15-30 minutes daily.
I myself have tried the wheat belly diet with little results.